You still in love with your ex-girlfriend but don’t know how to get her back? If it is the case, then you don’t need to worry anymore as here we come to bail you out of this situation.Going through break ups is one of the most painful phases of one’s life. Breakups mark the end of a long association and an intimate bond. But if you really loved her then this broken relationship can always be salvaged. As according to a famous saying ‘what is lost does not have to stay lost’. The lost thing can always be searched, found and reshaped, reconstructed. It can be made even more solid and stronger than before. But the first thing that one needs to find out is that do you really desperately want her back or need her back? Need and want are two different things.
If you two shared a really good relationship which somehow got ruined due to some or other reasons then you surely have a strong reason to try and win her back. But if on the other hand you need her back because you find it really difficult to go out there and find a new girlfriend, then you must stop then and there and be honest to your emotions. Here are some of the ways which can help you reconcile with your ex-girlfriend.
Therapeutic Recreation: break up is a very emotional part of one’s life. It makes you weak and vulnerable. You should try and give some time to yourself during this phase. Avoid internet, phones and friends who are also friends with your ex. Deviate your mind and get involved in some creative activities. Make yourself emotionally strong.
Try Reaching Out To Her: after you are done with your healing try getting your life back on track. Meet old friends, socialize and make new friends. Side by side try getting in touch with your ex by either a text or call. Make her feel comfortable and tell her your sole aim is just to do friendship with her and there is no romantic angle involved. Try and go out with her on friendly lunches and brunches but strictly avoid any late night rendezvous. Be kind and caring to her. This will help you to win her trust back. No need to rush things up. Move slowly and cautiously and take things as they come.
Remember The Good Memories Spent Together: Once you have won her trust back and made her feel comfortable. Try to talk about the good old memories that you have spent together as a couple. This should be done in bits and pieces. Notice her reaction. If she starts feeling uncomfortable and irritated then stop then and there. Make her believe that everything you both shared was something very unique and intimate. After some time has passed express your feeling of getting back together to her. Give her some time to decide and make her decision and if you are lucky enough you may get an affirmative answer.